Coaching & couples therapy in Remseck

Who would consider it a realistic expectation that one’s own car will do its job faithfully and dutifully for years, decades without regular maintenance in the garage, without regular care?

Yet we often have this expectation when it comes to our own relationship. It is understandable that we want our love relationship to be an effortless self-runner.

We often hear “you have to work at a relationship” and roll our eyes, thinking, can’t we just relax anywhere, does everything have to be “work”, involve effort?

In fact, the answer is that love requires care, nurturing and attentiveness. Often, however, you can’t see the wood for the trees and feel caught up in the same old arguments. This is where couples therapy can come into play to help (or couples counseling, couples coaching, marriage counseling, I use the terms synonymously for the sake of simplicity).